Become Irresistibly Attractive

Beyond Attraction

* Almost anyone can apply the attraction principles and measure the benefits. But what if you want to go beyond and maximize your Dreams? What would you need to do differently in your life? I have outlined the emotional, mental, spiritual and lifestyle changes which will lead to going beyond Attraction.

* Completely give up the notion of a "predesigned Future" One of the Attraction principles is to unhook from the future. This is also refereed to as living within the flow of life. One wants to enjoy and live every moment to the fullest and not wait for life to begin.

* Eliminate the To-do list and automate/delegate everything. Simplify your life to the point where you are getting up everyday and doing exactly what you want to do--nothing about the future, past only the present. This is probably not practical, nor wise---for most, but try to simplify your life to the point that it becomes normal. When and if you return to a tradition lifestyle, you will maintain this sense of inner freedom and choice.

* Eliminate the need for external validation. In other words do not become motivated from externals such as recognition, the opinions/support of others, the possible acknowledgment, or even fame. Don\'t be motivate by what may sell/be popular of what specific people need from you. Stay in touch with what your market needs/wants but be driven by what intrigues you most.

* Accept even the most unacceptable people.Recognize and accept people for their strengths. Provide yourself with enough space to not take any person personally. One of the benefits of developing a strong personal foundation is that you can handle difficult people without cost to yourself. This comes from having the reserve enough to care and be generous.

* Trust your whims and experiment continuously.Allow yourself to experiment freely until you find the skills, phrase or technique that actually works well for you. Note whims are different from intuition and inklings.

* Learn from your environment and evolve from what occurs. The attraction principle of "over-responding to every event" is key. This is a level where you are always learning, yet not for any reason. (just in time learning is usually task/result oriented) This is key to developing your mind, body and senses. Continual evolution can be more interesting than mastering a narrow set of skills. Both are excellent, however many people focus on improvement/skills and do not get the evolutionary part.

* Find totally different sources of stimulation for your life. Attraction depends on synchronicity, which results from increasing flow. Flow depends on both stimulation and the reduction of blocks/resistance. You get both when you put yourself in very different environments, hang out with different types of persons/groups or by getting into situations for which you have no objective other than to be surprised/stimulated.Try shaking up your stagnant thinking--and yourself--thus, radically changing stimulations.

* Experiment with the notion of "absence of". Learn the difference of \'absence of\' and \'freedom from.\' Freedom from usually means you are trying to get away from something; absence of connotes that there is nothing there to get away from.

* Abandon beliefs and opinions. What does your belief or opinion about it have to do with anything?After all opinions are a way to define ourselves and get a buy-in (argument or validation) from others. Instead ask questions that stimulate instead of trying to get people to agree with you.

* Carve out your own reality. Most of us use a version of our parents Personal Oouperating System, or we have adopted a popular Personal Operating System off-the -shelf, whether it is cultural, geographic, religious or philosophical. Nothing is wrong with that, however once you start working with Attraction, you may find the need to create your own Personal Operating system (POS). There is a learning curve involved with this process, since most of us have never taken POS 101, but it is worth the investment.